Loss

Losing doesn't always mean forever...you can touch and feel the person and still have lost them...what do you do then??? what’s better then - not having the person with you at all or having them and pushing yourself to be happy without them…moving on doesn’t mean forgetting...sometimes the pain of loss is so deep you need a reason, whatever it may be, for some kind of consolation...to believe that there is a greater purpose to our loss...loss is never understood; neither by those who don't experience it nor by those who do…no reason, no logic can ever define its profundity…the question of why always lingers…the acceptance of that loss is almost impossible to face…denial, more denial and then follows a reluctant acceptance…i say reluctant because there is hope…whether they’re in heaven or sitting on the bench next to you, the hope that you will hold their hand again when you walk always remains…many may think this kind of thinking is unhealthy…i say they’ve not lost…maybe it’s easy to forget or maybe it’s not…maybe with a little effort it’s possible to forget and get over and move on and more of such words used by psychologists and therapists to sound superior and in control of their emotions…but who wants to forget…who wants to let go…who wants to move on if moving on means giving up the memories…if moving on means forgetting...